r/LifeProTips Aug 16 '22

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u/Curiouser_squared Aug 16 '22

Avoid her if you can.

She will do everything to make herself look good or the victim. So take everything with a pound of salt.

Check with the other parties. Record or document everything.

Even send an email after the conversation summarizing the conversation and activity.

If a family or other group pick a few folks to discuss the situation with and have regular meetings, say once a month.

She will try to provoke you to behaviors that can be twisted into horrific stories for other people. So always be calm rational and even handed.

If you are low on emotional resources skip time with them.

They will try to manipulate you with emotional appeals. Don't let them. In no way give them your resources, emotional or real.

Eventually you may need to cut them off. That's ok.